Writers get bored easily, you have to steer up their interest before you both can flow on the same level of mutual understanding. Their level of susceptibility is despicably high because they value words like gold, Apparently this is more reason why they are very alluring ' The weirdness attached to their unfolding personality. They listen when you talk & create rudiment of an escape plan. They value comfort like pen & paper, they rather be alone free, sour, ponder & strategize on there next move. Just in a single line, they can make you feel so glorious, that feeling you get when you riding on a fast horse. The world of a writer is incredible, but when he/she is in pain, they rather paint a picture or pour out words on paper to overcome. Give them depth in conversation & they will feed your intellect beyond the natural realm a human can gasps. They are quite good at predicting, they can analyse your every move within minutes. Some writers live in a world of imagination which (sometimes) manifest into reality of it kind. They live like actors in novels, constantly gravitating towards that which is real. They are mysterious in nature, just when you think you've gotten to the trenches the root that leads to their soul, they change the event around. They are easily captivated by readers but readers have the ability to see through them because they read books which expose them to the possible thought a writer might be experiencing even before manifestation of actions. A writer can't be classified as a fighter because he uses his words to create peace rather than engage in conflict.
When conversing with a writer & he/she takes a break, he/she probably just remembered the word to complete the last line of poetry or story which is long due or there was no depth in conversation & escape was key to self relief.. A writer never uses the word right or isn't it, because they feel it reveals & shows lack of confidence. In recent times people haven't really been able to understand the life of a writer. Avoid reading the drafts of a writer, they can make you rain at the same time shine like the sun & your smile will unconsciously mimick the shape of the rainbow. Great men like Nicholas Sparks did that in the past, in his novel titled message in a bottle.
There are so many ways to spark up the interest of a writer-
1)Give them depth in conversation & interaction.
2) Feed them with words they are unfamiliar with, they will run back to their dictionary & this will make them see you as a challenge. writers love be challenged. Remember they easily get bored.
3) Writers love vulnerability, susceptibility. Show them your soul, rawness in words. They crave for intimacy but they rather spend time exchanging words than exchange of touch.
4) Feed them with unrestricted words like a portion of poison tell them you like their new book, they will wallow in tears the day you pack your bags & decide to leave.
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5) They love mental stimulation, like malanda.j rightly said - A woman that reads is gold to a man that thinks.

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